Can't tell you how many times I've just tossed the chart aside and talked about the real issue. I mean, okay kid, you want to know the perfect kind of girl for you -- but what steps are you willing to take to meet her?

Uhm-hmm.

Notes: utter lack of self-confidence; kid stares at shoes because I'm female; thinks knowing the right 'kind' of girl will change this. Spends session working on kid's self-confidence, highlighting his abilities and successes with girls. "So you had lots of friends who were girls before age thirteen. So what changed?"

Icarus