Busy, busy -- when did having a boyfriend become work?

Hit the end of Memorial Day weekend and found, jeeze, I ran my tail off but only accomplished one project (and that only because b-boy insisted).

Okay, I did try a new recipe in my curry book. (For him. One really has to do it with lamb.) And did some grocery shopping. (Partially to have food for him this weekend.) But.

Writing project: 0 done.
Spiritual practice: 0 done.
Meeting with writing group: couldn't go, was with b-boy and late getting back from DC.
Yoga class: didn't go, up too late with b-boy.
Tibetan study: hahahahahhaha.

We talked. He doesn't have other plans. Which is why he's soaking up all my free time. *eyeroll*

I just ... I remember that with my ex, he took care of himself. And me. (I realize though that my ex was in his late 40s, while b-boy is only 29. And 29? Really pays off in the bedroom.)

He just mentioned he had a button come off one of his shirts. "I can show you how to sew that," I said sweetly, knowing full well he wanted me to do it for him.

*sigh*

Signal boost: temporary home for cat

anomilygrace is going through some rough times and is looking for a temporary home for one of her cats:

LJ Friends, Help?

So I'm asking my LJ friends if any of you know of any shelters or foster homes or any place where Isabel could live while I'm trying to get better and get back on my feet. She's an older kitty - nearly 12 years old (and God, my heart breaks that I am doing this to her), but she's a huge sweetheart and gets along manageably with other kitties & people (once she's decided they're acceptable).

Emily lives in Michigan, but she's willing to transport Isabel to anywhere in the US Midwest, and to pay any vet bills that might come up.

A coworker is in fandom, yay!

So a coworker of mine is in fandom -- yay! (She's also brilliant. These things go together, right?)

She's in British micro-fandoms I've never, ever heard of (and Sherlock). And, get this: was never in the Harry Potter fandom.

Never heard of such a thing. :D

Freekibblekat.com

From ivorygates:

Today Freekibble is donating ALL Kibble raised today at Freekibble and Freekibblekat to the animal relief effort in the tornado stricken Joplin, Missouri AND if they reach 1 million pieces, Halo, Purely for Pets, will match it with ANOTHER Million pieces!

"Right or wrong, you win! Click on an answer, and every day you do, we'll provide 10 pieces of kibble to Animal Shelters to help feed their hungry dogs. Play Bow-Wow Trivia every day - the more you play, the more kibble for the dogs!"

http://www.freekibble.com/

"Right or wrong, you win! Click on an answer, and every day you do, we'll provide 10 pieces of kibble to Animal Shelters to help feed their hungry cats. Play Meow Trivia every day - the more you play, the more kibble for the cats!"

http://www.freekibblekat.com/

All you do is answer a trivia question. There's nothing to buy.

Boost the signal.