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I'm achingly missing redgoldpride now. I've taken the better part of two days off from school.

Sigh. interimminister is getting in over his head.

Sigh.

My fics aren't moving.

Sigh. *wah* I miss Ron.

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Re: Percy can't tell what's missing, but there's definitely a blank spot - miss you too.

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My experience is mainly lesbian but later on some het and I've certainly watched/been around gay and het as well as a lot more lesbian. And various kinds of group arrangements. Not that I'm active because I haven't been for a couple of years and I was never very intensely into any version of that scene. Like everyone else I know personally I started on the sub side - but in my case it didn't really ever click. I was always acting in a really conscious way. I don't think I was ever spectacularly brilliant the other way either - although I do tend to have very high expectations of myself - which is probably why I could happily enough walk away when my next girlfriend disliked that scene.

There's a lot more flexibility in het D/s in my experience - the weight of stereotypes in gay and lesbian public scenes really is very powerful (for all sorts of good reasons I know I know). But I didn't mean to imply all or even most f/f D/s is penetrative, but there is a lot more, it seems to me, than in f/m.